最近看了一个电视剧《好先生》，本来没抱着太大的期望 -- 况且还是42集 -- 但是怎么越看越爱啊。结果一个礼拜内竟然看完了哈哈（我就不写我平均几点睡了。。现在早上7点了lol）
《好先生》是一个都市情感片，说一名厨师，陆远，在美国的生活。本来走上幸福成功的日子，却因为经济差没工作，欠债。为了钱做坏事的时候被逮捕，坐牢。出来后，一波未完另一波又起，结果没味觉，没女朋友，没前途。然而就自暴自弃，过着行尸走肉的日子，晚晚喝醉酒在赌场过夜。有个兄弟每天有义气地收留他，却因为一场车祸去世。为了这个兄弟的后事而回国后，路远在那里因为种种事情学习成长。
其实重点不在plot，反正情感戏来来去去差不多，但是这个戏对很多在爱情，友情，和亲情上深入地探讨很多问题。这个就是我还没睡觉来写这个的目的。
----人生路（陆）远，把以前的人事忘得干（甘）净（敬），才可以迎接将（江）来（莱）----
人的成长
成长的过程，需要的是时间，需要的是经历。剧情里给了三个阶段的成长期：1. 青少年期：对于事情不顾得大局面，只为自己觉得对的事考虑而认清事实而做出冷静的分析。2. 成年人期：虽然顾得大局面，但还是有时候的冲动。虽然有着自己的判断，但也有时候反而因为自己的尊严和执着搞出事情。3. 老人期：见过世面的 “老太太”，看破了不说，儿子死了也看淡，清楚知道这世界上最重要的东西。
关于恩与爱
Saturday, 14 December 2019
Monday, 15 July 2019
Mid-year mid-life crisis
What was supposed to be a relaxing and happy holiday in Europe ended up as a miserable experience of receiving the news that she passed away on a gloomy Thursday morning. She was someone whom I could never communicate with/to, having language barriers. Yet, she was someone who had great importance in my life - greater than most, and I, would imagine.
I was starting to get to know the world; she was starting to forget bits and pieces of the world.
I was struggling to form coherent sentences; she was struggling to still form coherent sentences.
I was at the start of my race; she was nearing the end.
I was growing up; she was growing old.
Through her, I see the end.
She was the reason my father and his seven siblings can gather in the first place, and she was also the reason of the rare, complete attendance of all seven siblings, who hailed from different countries and continents - not to mention the grandchildren and grand-grandchildren. She was the reason her children still occasionally meet up despite conflicts that would otherwise set them apart. She might be close to losing her senses, she might be senile, but she was leader of the family, as none other than the leader of the pack can bring the pack together.
Heregoes another spiral towards darkness, I lost my bearings in this lifeless world.
It's a world with too much suffering, too much pain, and too much regrets.
It's a world with meaningless rewards towards pointless endeavors.
Because, really, when you start forgetting who you are and who you love when you start hearing the sound of the bells from afterlife, what stays?
您可能看不懂也听不懂我说什么，但是我这一份思念和不舍是专属留给您的。至少，您离开了缠身的疾病，累人的勾心斗角，伤心的世界。无法抚平的心情和泪腺之中还是参杂了为您感到心安的平静。安心上路吧婆婆
I was starting to get to know the world; she was starting to forget bits and pieces of the world.
I was struggling to form coherent sentences; she was struggling to still form coherent sentences.
I was at the start of my race; she was nearing the end.
I was growing up; she was growing old.
Through her, I see the end.
She was the reason my father and his seven siblings can gather in the first place, and she was also the reason of the rare, complete attendance of all seven siblings, who hailed from different countries and continents - not to mention the grandchildren and grand-grandchildren. She was the reason her children still occasionally meet up despite conflicts that would otherwise set them apart. She might be close to losing her senses, she might be senile, but she was leader of the family, as none other than the leader of the pack can bring the pack together.
Heregoes another spiral towards darkness, I lost my bearings in this lifeless world.
It's a world with too much suffering, too much pain, and too much regrets.
It's a world with meaningless rewards towards pointless endeavors.
Because, really, when you start forgetting who you are and who you love when you start hearing the sound of the bells from afterlife, what stays?
您可能看不懂也听不懂我说什么，但是我这一份思念和不舍是专属留给您的。至少，您离开了缠身的疾病，累人的勾心斗角，伤心的世界。无法抚平的心情和泪腺之中还是参杂了为您感到心安的平静。安心上路吧婆婆
Thursday, 17 January 2019
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